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Booze
and drug use can be widespread in London,
remember, just because things are happening around you doesn’t
mean you should feel pressured to drink or take drugs…. be
yourself, you’re an individual….. be confident about
who you are!
Your
first time in a gay venue
You’ll probably feel a bit awkward or shy, there’ll
be people you don’t know. Think about what will help you to
feel more comfortable, do you have a trusted mate you could take
along? They don’t have to be gay or bi to still offer you
support.
Contrary
to the myth
Not every gal on the scene is bonking like a bunny.
Loads have decided to not get involved till they meet that dream
woman….
or until they’re more settled about themselves, or where they’re
at….
If you are going to take the plunge, make sure that you feel in
control, that you’ve made your own decisions, and have all
the info you need….. and safer sex protection.
Don’t
ever feel pressured
if a situation doesn’t feel right, you don’t have to
go through with it…and there are endless ways to get closer
with someone, not just the down n dirty… texting, phone calls,
kissing, and flirting like crazy are just a few.
For sources of info and support, check out the links section on
this site.
 And
finally, the vomit factor…..
You know that ‘just one more’ drink that you think will
give you a little bit of courage, be careful it doesn’t push
you over the edge… do you want to risk falling asleep on the
babe of your dreams…. or worse still, her having to clean
your vomit out of her hair?
Kind of limits your chances of a second date…..
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